Let it go

fire-emblem-confessions:

"Another Meeting" by lavi23 

draumbouy:

toenail-fister:

"Teach men not to rape"
Shut the fuck up.
Shut every fucking part of your face noise can come out of.
Stop fucking talking.
Do not talk.
Stop speaking.
Stop implying men are the only fucking people who rape.
Stop implying rapists don’t know that what they’re doing is wrong.
Stop blaming men for what fucking rapists do.
Stop.

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tucutes: gender presentation isnt the same as your gender!
tucutes: *makes genders based on how someone acts and looks*
I’m out as transgender. I’ve been out for a few days now, but it doesn’t feel real. It’s kinda strange.
That being said, the hookup culture is disgusting and needed to be destroyed.

tenaflyviper:

braaaaain:

hatey-mchaterson:

tenaflyviper:

poppypicklesticks:

nthesecond:

dumblr—feminist:

alessandrogiovanni1:

disneyvillainsforjustice:

artemuscainpotato:

dumblr—feminist:

"…men actually avoiding contact with women because they’re afraid a simple kiss or date could lead to a sexual assault accusation."

This is a HUGE problem, in fact THIS WHOLE ARTICLE is extremely disgusting. Not to mention the fact that I have seen quite a few other articles about rape hysteria as well. As a victim of rape myself, this needs to stop. I’m not sure why feminists fear rape like grim death, yet at the same time use it as a revenge tool. False rape accusations are at an all time high, and thanks to the very fucked up NEW Definition of rape, which basically seems to me “ANYTHING A GUY DOES THAT I DON’T LIKE” things are spinning out of control.

Honestly? Honestly! Rape is a serious fucking issue, and you know what? Feminists are turning it into a fucking joke. Feminists seem to be really fucking determined to make rape the most trivial thing POSSIBLE. Now men looking at you the wrong way is rape, now men complimenting you is rape, men saying hello, smiling at you, sitting too close to you on a bus. It’s all rape and oppression and WHAT THE FUCK? How determined are you to make not only rape a joke, but also be victims? How determined are you to make WOMEN LOOK AS STUPID AND FUCKING ALARMIST AS POSSIBLE!? You all goddamn complain about how rape ISN’T Something to joke about while simultaneously TURNING RAPE INTO ONE HUGE THREE RINGED CIRCUS!

For the love of God feminists PLEASE FUCKING STOP!

Certain feminists are also doing a great job in gendering the whole freaking issue and making it very difficult for any man who was sexually assaulted to be believed. Or it can strike fear into men who got into sexual situations without consenting themselves, and then worrying and freaking thinking that they are the rapist, especially if alcohol is involved and both parties are drunk. It also doesn’t help when everyone tells men that they always want to have sex, and no one tells them how to say no, or that they even can so no, if the other party initiates the activity.
- Mod Helga

I will say it again this is really fucked up, sad, and incredibly depressing but sadly not at all surprising.

I see a bunch of feminists on here whining about how no guys want them or like them or want to date them but this article is kind of proof how hideous they’ve gotten with their “rape culture”. This is why men don’t wanna talk to you, this is a problem FEMINISTS created not the men.

moral panics are so very empowering of women

I don’t blame those men in the least.  They’re now having to alienate themselves as protection from having their lives potentially ruined.  A few things to note here:

This glorified mass hysteria known as “rape culture” has now finally driven men and women farther apart than ever before.

Now, someone please explain how this is encouraging gender equality, because—maybe I need to get my eyes checked—but I’m just not seeing it.  I’m also not seeing anything that could even remotely be considered “empowerment”.  All I am seeing is resentful women passive-aggressively lashing out in sociologically harmful ways over their own lack of understanding of others, perpetuating unsubstantiated widespread panic, alienating themselves from men even further than they already had, and basically trying to force women to live in a constant state of subservient fear.

If that’s anyone’s idea of “empowerment”, or “protecting” women, then please - keep it to yourselves from now on, because we’re better off without it.

This is bad. This is really, really bad.

Holy shit! This post is so much! I’ve gone through all those links and while I don’t have near enough time to refute them point by point trust me when I say that they are all either unsourced, taken out of context, cherry picking facts, manipulating statistics, outright lying, or actually from known hate groups.

I started following the person I reblogged this from because they contributed to that awesome woman in science post from shychemist that went around a while back, and I’m really disappointed that she ascribes to this red pill bullshit. 

Breaking news, guys!  Harvard, the CDC, the FBI, the Federal Bureau of Statistics, RAINN, a feminist scholar that has devoted her entire life to women’s studies, the Independent Women’s Forum, numerous police reports, and literal scientific fucking FACT are now “unsourced, biased hate groups” (I’d LOVE to know where “unsourced” comes from, as you’re not providing a shred of evidence to back your claims here).

Seriously - people like you do not give a shit about women.  If you’re literally ANGRY that women AREN’T as oppressed and victimized as you were falsely led to believe, how healthy is your idea of “feminism” to the safety of women?

judal-is-my-spirit-animal:

Fat shaming is calling fat people landwhales, cows, airplanes, or other random insults based on their size or telling them they’re ugly or otherwise insulting their appearance. Saying that being obese is unhealthy is not fat shaming. Believe it or not, it’s possible…

sayakaforjustice:

You know, I actually used to be more involved with feminist tumblr because sometimes they talk about actual issues (like pro-choice things, purity culture, women in third world countries, etc), but I think it was the radfems that kind of pushed me away. 

Recently, a young trans girl in my city was murdered, and when I mentioned this, I got called a “dick worshipper” who was trying to steal the attention away from “real women”.

I was appalled. These cunts actually had the audacity to make someone else’s death all about them and act like they had it worse. That’s when I went from “okay I can handle radfems if they’re quiet” to “all radfems are literal fucking sociopaths”. And whenever people would bring up the disgusting way radfems treated trans women, bi women, any women they didn’t like, some radfem would respond with “ok but we are too oppressed to do any real damage so it’s okay”.

Listen, you don’t have to be “privileged” to be a total piece of shit. You don’t have to have unlimited political influence to be a total piece of shit either. ANYONE can be a horrible person. Feminists can be horrible people, anti feminists can be horrible people, women can be horrible people, men can be horrible people, ANYONE can. 

Not only did radfems stomp all over someone’s death and demonize that girl for taking attention away from “real women” (even though that girl was certainly a “real woman”), but they dismissed this behavior because they thought that their “oppression” gave them a free pass.

I still look at pro-choice blogs and I like seeing what people have to say about sex shaming and this “purity” bullshit, but other than that, I would rather keep my distance from tumblr’s shitty feminism community.

crystallineprincess:

hello-megaton:

How the guy who invented a date-rape drug detecting nail polish feels after being attacked by feminists 

>guypart of the problem. there’s a number of reasons why the idea sucks, but mostly because drugs are only involved in a minority of rape cases. it helps reinforce ideas that women need to change their behaviours or wear a certain thing to stop rape. it’s funny when people start attacking feminists like anita sarkeesian, it’s “dishonest” to ignore the “legitimate criticism” in the wake of that. however when there are honest and thoughtful feminist critiques of stuff like that, they get shut down as bitching and surprise surprise, feminists end up getting attacked again.For an explanation of the issues behind the “Anti rape” Nail Polish, this article is a good start.http://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/opinion/2014/08/nail-polish-anti-rape-anti-woma-201482916326943544.html

It’s not an ‘either/or’ issue, where something either works completely or isn’t worth it.
Yes, the majority of rape isn’t going to be some stranger, and it’s not going to be always caused by a drug, but the risk is still there. And no matter how much we “educate”, there will always be people who don’t give a shit, who see women as a tool for their pleasure.
We need to attack the problem on all fronts. We need to be prepared to defend ourselves, not from the world we should live in, but the world we do live in. Rape happens. Anything that can prevent it is worth pursuing, no matter how insignificant. 

crystallineprincess:

hello-megaton:

How the guy who invented a date-rape drug detecting nail polish feels after being attacked by feminists 

>guy

part of the problem. there’s a number of reasons why the idea sucks, but mostly because drugs are only involved in a minority of rape cases. it helps reinforce ideas that women need to change their behaviours or wear a certain thing to stop rape. 

it’s funny when people start attacking feminists like anita sarkeesian, it’s “dishonest” to ignore the “legitimate criticism” in the wake of that. however when there are honest and thoughtful feminist critiques of stuff like that, they get shut down as bitching and surprise surprise, feminists end up getting attacked again.

For an explanation of the issues behind the “Anti rape” Nail Polish, this article is a good start.

http://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/opinion/2014/08/nail-polish-anti-rape-anti-woma-201482916326943544.html


It’s not an ‘either/or’ issue, where something either works completely or isn’t worth it.

Yes, the majority of rape isn’t going to be some stranger, and it’s not going to be always caused by a drug, but the risk is still there. And no matter how much we “educate”, there will always be people who don’t give a shit, who see women as a tool for their pleasure.

We need to attack the problem on all fronts. We need to be prepared to defend ourselves, not from the world we should live in, but the world we do live in. Rape happens. Anything that can prevent it is worth pursuing, no matter how insignificant. 

Another Unpopular Opinion

justttc:

I firmly believe as a person and hopefully future parent that if you don’t vaccinate your children you deserve to be investigated by Child Protection Services. Putting other people’s children and other people in danger with your pseudo science shouldn’t be a parenting choice. It should be required unless for some reason your child medically can’t be vaccinated. I’m not implying all of you are bad parents but you’re making a terrible choice that’s not even based in evidence